Friday, February 22, 2013

You Can't Go Home Again



As I age I grow more nostalgic. I guess this is normal. At least I hope it is. One of my friends from as far back as 6th grade, whom I have not seen in the flesh since 1970 posted a picture on facebook today of either him or his brother scraping snow off a car in their driveway back in the early 60’s. I’ve stood in the same spot as the photographer many times. I felt transported back in time briefly and went immediately on a Google image search for more pictures of Acton, MA where it was taken and I’ve always longed for since I left.

I’ve been back exactly twice, once in 1970 when I saw my friend Larry, and a few years ago we stopped nearby in Concord on our way to Maine. I wanted to have a lot of time to reacquaint myself with Acton but found after driving around, showing my wife our old house and a few other spots that there was not much else to do, or least that I could expect would be in anyway meaningful to my wife. Maybe if I had been by myself I could’ve gone over it more slowly and try wrung out more of the past, but I wonder.